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11
Jul

keeping your word

There is nothing more aggravating than someone who doesn’t follow through on their end of a deal.  I know there have been (and probably will be) times where I haven’t kept my word.  It makes you feel bad.  I ws reading an article on the Boundless website about this very thing.  It’s a great article.  Here’s a clip;

I’d already done all the work I could do without the deliverable I needed from Bob. If I didn’t get his report, I wasn’t going to be able to finish the project on time. He’d told me that he’d have it for me by the end of the day yesterday, and while he meant well, we all knew that Bob just used words differently. End of the day could just as easily mean end of the week. You simply couldn’t count on the guy to keep verbal commitments.

As nice as he was (he always meant well), everyone in the office was starting to make up excuses to avoid having him as a part of their project team.

Words matter to God. A lot. On keeping promises: “When you vow a vow to God, do not delay paying it, for he has no pleasure in fools. Pay what you vow. It is better that you should not vow than that you should vow and not pay” (Eccles. 5:4-5). Or in Psalm 15, as part of a description of what it means to walk blamelessly, we read of one “who swears to his own hurt and does not change” (meaning he makes good on his word, even if there’s a price to pay). Likewise, Jesus tells us that our simple “yes” and “no” should be sufficient (Matt. 5:37).

Read the article.  It’s worth a few minutes of your time.

11
Jul

guys bonding

I love doing relational ministry.

This afternoon I am heading to Storm Lake to do some bonding with some of my high school guys.  We are going to play some disc golf.  The winds are gusting pretty hard today so it should be interesting.  This is the part of ministry I like the best - spending time with the students.  My hope is to build stronger relationships with them and encourage them to pursue Christ with everything they’ve got.

All in all we have 6-10 going today.  Most of them have never played disc golf.  This should be an interesting afternoon to say the least.  6-10 new guys throwing hard plastic discs in unpredictable wind will surely = someone getting smoked with a disc.

11
Jul

caring for the heart ministries

We are hosting a Caring for the Heart Seminar in November here at Bethel.  It’s crazy because we are already having people call wanting to sign up for it….yes already.  As the time gets closer I will post more information on it.  If you want to attend it’s free.  There will be a free-will offering the last night of the seminar.  It is a relationship seminar and not just for marriages.  The dates are November 2-5.

If you want to sign up just call our church @  712-272-3735

10
Jul

church growth formulas = false reality?

Adam McLane has a great post about his 3 Lies of Church Growth Experts. You really should read it if you’re a church leader. Here’s a clip;

An observation. Have you noticed that churches that want to grow (100 to 1000 people) flock to churches that grew 10, 20, or 30 years ago but have since plateaued? It’s like asking Bill Gates, “How do you start a software company?” Bill wouldn’t have a clue! When he wants to start a software company he buys one! In the same way, asking a church of 10,000 how to grow is a waste of time because they knew how to do it in their town 10, 20, or 30 years ago but haven’t a clue how to do it today in your town!

10
Jul

having no regrets

One thing I have come across lately are several youth pastors who have regrets for not standing up for certain things in the past. I know of some who are facing tough things now and are asking the question, “How do you deal with this?”

I resonate fully with those who are going through this or have been through it. A few years ago I had a trip pulled out from under my feet 3 days before we were to leave and there was nothing I could do about it. All because of one guy objecting to it. Looking back I wish I would have fought that one. It was a sad situation. I

Here are a few things I think about how you should handle such conflict when it happens.

  • Choose - choose the battles you want to fight. Some are worth it. Some are not. There are things I wish I would have fought harder on in the past 10 years of ministry. Choose which things are of great value and importance to your ministry and defend them. Things may not always go the way you thought they should but at least you will go down swinging.
  • Do it in love - once you choose if it’s worth it or not defend it in love. It’s ok to be passionate about your method or idea but do it in love. Don’t let your passion come across as arrogance. Sometimes those that have been in ministry for a long time get used to doing things “the old way” and aren’t willing to try new things.
  • Be supported - Make sure your team supports you. More than that make sure you have your SP’s support in it. If he’s not supporting you in it maybe it’s not a great idea after all. It’s not worth going to war over if you don’t have the support of your SP.
  • Be real - be real and honest with the one challenging you. If your SP supports it and a deacon/ elder along is stopping it go to bat for the idea. One man shouldn’t be able to shut something down. Now if it’s the whole board then I think it’s wise to not fight the battle. If it’s one man then by all means it’s worth it. Be real and honest though. Do it in love and compassion. Sometimes the SP has to be the one to make the tough choice to override the one man’s decision. That’s not an easy thing. Just like eh supported your idea or event you need to support him lovingly when he goes to bat for you and when people try to attack his ministry…especially when the attacks are unfounded.
09
Jul

summer schedule

I made our summer schedule flier today. I will be making them into postcards and posters to hang around the church. I just got my new version of Adobe Photoshop Elements the other day which is what I used with this. It’s simple but it works. I also got some great brushes for FREE off of this website - http://www.brusheezy.com/

Here’s what  I came up with.

08
Jul

motivating staff

For me there is nothing that gives me more charge for my week, outside of spending time with God, than a great staff meeting. Staff meetings? Really? Yeah staff meetings. Not just any kind of meeting but ones that are productive. Today we had such a great meeting. So what makes a staff meeting great? Here are some things that I think work;

  • talk about what the church is facing - This is a big one for me. If done the right way this can be a time where things are shared in the strictest of confidentiality. Certain issues can be prayed for specifically. Whether it’s issues, event, highs or lows the church is facing I think the staff need a place that is protected where they can share their frustrations and heart-aches.
  • do life together - hang out with each other. Play board games, go golfing, watch reality TV with each other. The more you DO with others the more you will BOND with others. Is it worth bonding with your team? Every second of it.
  • cast vision together - If your staff isn’t on the same page your church never will be either. This is a firm belief of mine. It’s important that everyone is dancing to the beat of the same drum as far as vision goes…now the method each department or part of the body uses to get their will certainly be different but the vision (the end goal) must be the same. If your staff ins’t in sync then your churc won’t be either.
  • pray together - Prayer is a big thing. As Christian we attribute the power of prayer to healing people, marriages being resolved. So why don’t we pray when it comes to the direction and body of our churches? Sure we should be praying on our own but I think when a team comes together to pray in a unified fashion it helps to unify the team.
  • be real - If you can’t be real with your team then maybe you shouldn’t be serving with them. Think of it this way. If you can’t be real, open and honest then how does that play out when it comes to casting vision together? Will you be able to be real, open and honest when you disagree with a part of the vision? If you can’t be real, open and honest can you really be solidified as a team

These are just some of my ideas. What are yours?

07
Jul

funniest. thing. ever.

Today we were in Stom Lake hanging up posters for VBS for this next week.  Everything was going well.  We were surprisingly turned down by a number of places but still we pushed on.  We get to Hy-Vee and the funniest thing happened.  One of my male students (I’m trying to protect his integrity) got out and went in.  He was given permission to hang a poster up on the door then the manager corrected him and he had to go back to put it on the bulletin board in the back of the store.

So he comes out already flustered.  Then he does the unthinkable - he gets into the WRONG vehicle and the guy was in there.  I am glad i was able to watch this happen in real time.  It was hillarious.  I honestly couldn’t talk straight for a good 2-3 minutes.

Then we go to another store and he ALMOST gets into the wrong vehicle again.  I looked at him as he got in my Explorer and the dialogue went like this;

Me:  “Man 2 in one day…that would be bad. “

Him:  “Yeah then I would have had to have kille you so no one would find out.”

Me:  “Yeah right.”

Then he says the best quote ever,

“Hey I was brought up in a barbaric civilization where it was survival of the fittest.  No wait…that can’t be true.  I survived.  Wait did I just really say that?  This just isn’t my day.”

Classic.

07
Jul

VBS

Today I am heading into Storm Lake to hang up posters for our upcoming VBS.  We are having the puppoer team from Cedarville University come in and do our VBS for us this year.  I’m interested in seeing how this goes.

This afternoon I’m taking some students with me for some free labor and bonding.  Hmm maybe we’ll get a round of disc golf in after we are done.  Being a youth pastor is sometimes easy.

05
Jul

4th on the lake

Yesterday was a good day.  It was very laid back but good.  In the afternoon one of my senior high guys came over and we watched a little Wimbledon.  Actually it was really good yesterday.  After we were done we drove into Storm Lake and played 27 holes of disc golf.  I still haven’t shot a round under par yet.  It seems like I can’t quite break the +1 I have been shooting there lately.  Although I did ALMOST ace (hole in one) hole 3.  It was sweet.  I told him I was going for an ace.  Just about 10 inches higher and it would have been great.

After playing disc golf we went out to the Crippin’s house and had supper.  After supper we rode their wave runner.  It has a 4 stroke engine which mean this thing goes fast.  Yesterday I was getting on it Nick said, “Be careful - it’ll do 60.”  It was a lot of fun.  I got it up to 54 then got into some big wakes from another boat so I had to slow it down.  After we got done riding the wave runner Dr. Crippin took us out on their boat for the fireworks show.  We literally sat under the freworks as they went off.  We were just about  75-100 yards from where they were shooting them off.  Below are my favorite pics from the night;